Cover of How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

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How to Win Friends and Influence People

  • communication
  • relationships
  • leadership
  • sales
  • people skills
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Why I'd hand it to you

Dale Carnegie first published this in 1936, and the advice still works: remember names, listen more than you talk, admit when you are wrong, and look at things from the other person's side. The examples are old-fashioned, with plenty of businessmen and salesmen from another era, but the ideas transfer easily to work, church and family life. One caution: used without real care for people, these techniques can feel calculated. Carnegie himself warns against flattery, but some readers still find it a little slick. If you take it as a guide to genuine kindness, it has a lot to teach.

— Matt Jordan

Quick summary

Book
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Who it's for
Anyone who wants better people skills at work, church or home, and reads it as a guide to real kindness rather than technique.
Key topics
  • Listening and remembering names
  • Seeing the other person's side
  • Admitting mistakes
  • Communication and leadership
Shelves
Business, Psychology, General Nonfiction

Details

Author
Dale Carnegie
ASIN
0671027034
On these shelves
Business Psychology General Nonfiction
Short link
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